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Trying to capture everything I do, futile as it may be.

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I keep a small notebook by my side and do my best to keep a log of my day-to-day activities. This is the result.

Friday, 13 August 2010

Wednesday, August 18, 2010



Oh, it's Friday the 13th. Didn't even realize it.

Living in uncertain times...

Went to Santa Monica yesterday evening. Met up with Michelle and Justin and his friends. Alisa couldn't join because Christian's grandpa had died. We had dinner at the brand new Santa Monica Place mall. It's quite upscale. Then to the Thursday night free concert on the pier. There was wine tasting too, to celebrate Natalie's birthday. Also a couple more friends from Orange County. The wine was okay, cheap stuff from Australia; I don't care much for white wine anyway. I also ended up holding everyone's favorite snack, Michelle's banana bread with chocolate melty chips in it. Afterwards we hit up Bar Food on Wilshire. Michelle didn't come because Ben was locked out of their apartment in Pasadena. There Nikita (who has just returned from a year volunteering in Mumbai, India) met our server for the evening, who is also Indian, and also born and raised in Mumbai! What a crazy small world it is sometimes. Got back home around 12 midnight.
Alan from airbnb is staying over. We haven't really gotten to hang out.

Now I'm worried about car insurance. I submitted requests for quotes to several agencies, and it's freaking expensive! There goes the rest of my paycheck. And there goes my round-the-world trip :(

It's frustrating. I stomped on the grassy area outside the ATM. I think the valet parking guy saw me.

Music: Metallica - Enter Sandman; The Cure - Friday I'm in Love

Music to check out: Simian Mobile Disco; Hot Chip; We Have Band; PlayRadioPlay!

Thursday, 12 August 2010

Tuesday, August 17, 2010


Back at apt last night. Watched more Chuck and ate mac and cheese (which I almost burned).
Kevin anc Crystal returned and we played Settlers of Catan. Cool game.
Alan from airbnb arrived past midnight. I was asleep. He has a lot of clothes (he's a designer), and is showing them to Kitson today.
Finally uploaded my backlog of fb pics.
MG went to the Lady Gaga concert last night. Heheh.
Lionel is still out (3 weeks now). So it's quiet at the office.
Sent in my car registration info for insurance.
...getting so many couchsurfing requests, so hard to say no to all of them.
It's Thursday! I didn't even realize that.
Lunch: Leftover Thai food.
I got my financial aid refund check!
I walked to the bank and forgot to bring my wallet. D'oh.
Music: Travie McCoy - Billionaire; Carrie Underwood (as covered by crazy Chinese guy) - Before He Cheats
Andy skydived today. Patty didn't go.
Got my car insurance quote. It's expensive. :( I'm just losing money from every side. I don't have the luxury of just quitting my job now.
Dinner w/ Michelle and Justin in Santa Monica. Alisa isn't coming.


A good evening walk to Griffith Observatory last night. The two bean burritos I scarfed down didn't really act up in my stomach either :X
It was chilly atop the mountain though. THAI FOOD followed, finally choosing a place after several no-gos.

Got back 12:30am.
Woke up tired.

Applied to real estate financial analyst position.
Found an interesting talk by Sheer Iyengar on the art of choosing (TED conference). Americans' insistence of choice can be bad - overwhelming, sometimes suffocating and destructive to social relationships. I'm struggling with my plethora of choices now. Ah, to be part of another culture, if only...
Lunch: Microwaved burrito. Yum. Not.
Music: Taio Cruz - Dynamite

Tuesday, 10 August 2010

Monday, August 16, 2010


Met with mom for dinner last night. Drove from work (at a very leisurely pace, taking 3rd Street) to downtown, all the way to Boyle Heights, then back to Chinatown. She met me there after work, but a lot of restaurants are closed on Monday nights (wtf?!), so we ended up grabbing ramen in Little Tokyo. Family, sigh.
Came back to the apt, circa 9pm. Organized some photos/music on my laptop, watched Big Bang Theory then bed.
It's really hard for me to remember my dreams nowadays. Is that normal?
Walked to the kosher market near my apt this morning. Bought bananas, milk, etc.

Man, I really should just start that tour guide/travel company. Or just write like Rick Steves.
Making a list of "firsts" by day.
Music: Chumbawumba - Tubthumping
Lunch:
Looking at pics from Vietnam/Cambodia - If I can ever afford it, I'd totally want to build my own "Hidden Temple" complete with its own shrine of the silver monkey.
I should attend a taping of Jimmy Kimmel or some show soon.
A busy day for my coworkers. Not me though.


Watched Season 1 of Chuck yesterday.
Started using ratings on my Itunes.
A lot of people around me seem to be getting good luck lately. I'm like a good luck Chuck?
Meh - my outlook on life right now. A lot of what I'm doing just doesn't seem exciting. I feel like I'm being held back. Like running a marathon while carrying a dumbell. If only I could bring myself to put that weight down. (random moment of depth, wtf?)
My hair is getting longer.
Music: Journey - Don't Stop Believin'; Dexy's Midnight Runners - Come on Eileen; Starship - Nothing's Gonna Stop Us Now; Starsailor - Silence Is Easy
What are my plans for this week? Downtown LA artwalk.
I'm turning everything today into a Yakov Smirnoff joke, i.e. "In Soviet Russia..."
Lunch: Chicken thigh bits and hot dog buns. Another ghetto meal for my ghetto self.
The elevators are broken in the building.
Aaah. Hard to apply to jobs. I'll just go for grad school. In the UK!

Yawn


Saturday night.

Jason arrives back at the apartment. Two unfamiliar girls are inside. Not to be distracted, Jason proclaims, "excuse me while I pass out," and without hesitation walks into his bedroom and promptly collapses on his bed.

10 minutes later, a newly refreshed Jason emerges, apologizing for his curt entrance and introduces himself to Victoria and Rachel. Michelle and Lawrence were there too.

And so began a night of FML license plates, hilariously distracted female drivers, a nail salon-themed bar, a midnight excursion to Food 4 Less, Mexican wrestling masks, and a voice-debilitating night/early morning of karaoke. Needless to say, people get very defensive about their song choices: From "Horny" to the mandatory "Don't Stop Believin'" and "Livin' on a Prayer" to the disappointingly English "99 Luftballooons" and the disappointingly shortened theme to Fresh Prince. For some reason I was drawing blanks on types of 80s songs. And Michelle freaked out when she couldn't find her parking garage ticket.

I can't remember the last time I was out until 5am.

Miraculously I was up at 10am, and so were Victoria and Rachel, getting ready to meet their cousin/friend (can't remember) for brunch. And just like that, they were gone.

I chilled at the apartment. Watched Season 1 of Chuck (or at least the first 4 episodes thereof). A quiet Sunday.

TIJUANA DAY! 08/07/2010

Friday, August 13, 2010



Friday night: Andy and Patty's last night in LA. They stayed in to rest (still knackered from the time difference and all).

I met up with Jonathan and Ruben at a Himalayan restaurant in Culver City, where I ate Yak! It was delicious and lean but still tender. I also ordered it extra spicy. After stopping by the apartment, we then drove to TRiP in Santa Monica to see some live music. It was kind of a disappointment. There were only like 10 people in the audience. And I was talked into buying a strong Belgian beer that really didn't taste that great. We left around 11 and I was asleep before midnight.

Saturday: MY DAY TRIP TO TIJUANA!

Said bye to Andy and Patty, who left for LAX to catch their flight to Vegas. They almost missed the flight! (Extremely) Luckily the flight was delayed an hour, giving them time to get through security. I was stuck in traffic near LAX and almost picked them up too.

No ridesharers ended up joining us to Mexico. And Michelle (other) flaked out. So it was just the two of us. Whatevs. The drive was fine past the LAX traffic/accident. I parked at a San Diego trolley station in National City and we were soon on a trolley ride to the border! The neighborhoods passed by, and the composition of people riding the trolley became steadily more Mexican. The end of the line came, and Michelle and I simply followed the crowd as it entered what looked like a nondescript parking garage. It was actually the bridge to get over the freeway and over the border crossing. And, after spiraling up and down either side of the bridge, we simply walked through the metal revolving door and were in Mexico!

That was easy.

There were a couple police outposts right by the border entrance, but we weren't stopped once. The walkway opened into the street, with plenty of taxis eager to snap you up. I naturally had my guards up. Nevertheless I was surprized with the level of persistence that taxi drivers (and shopkeepers) insist that you choose them. I had plenty of opportunities to master my "No, gracias!".

We walked down the gauntlet of tourist-trap souvenir shops and "2 for 1" restaurant-cantinas. There weren't very many visitors anywhere. Right before crossing the river, there's a big plaza that was near deserted. There were small stands along the sloping path that spirals up to the bridge over the river. The staircase down the other side smelled pungently of urine.


Soon we were on Avenida Revolución. There were shops selling touristy stuff. Not much different than the touristy part of any major city. We were hungry, though, so we headed straight for the red light district, home of the restaurant mentioned on Wikitravel that served goat. It's actually birria, which is a meat stew that was absolutely delicious! Michelle and I split that, they kept refilling our tortillas (which were freshly hand-made) and even the stew! I also (spontaneously) ordered a gordita, which was full of cheeeeeeeeesy awesomeness. It's essentially a super grilled cheese sandwith WITH CARNE ASADA and made with tortillas instead of bread. Simply amazing. We were both elated to be eating such great food.

We then walked around the red light district. There were plenty of girls just standing on the sidewalk, with apathetic looks on their faces. The neighborhood didn't give me that bad of a vibe, though, despite the fact that Michelle and I were the only non-Mexicans around. We then returned to Avenida Revolución. (My camera was acting up this whole day, shaking and vibrating whenever I'd turn it on, so I didn't get many good pictures.) We bought two Mexican wrestling masks as gifts for the birthday celebration later that night. It was amazing having to haggle so aggressively to buy something. The salesman originally said the masks were $65 each. We eventually got him down to $10, but I wonder if we could've gotten him lower. Meh. Soon afterwards I did a similar bargaining dance with a shop lady for a wall-sized Mexican flag for my collection. $15 - I feel I should have held out for a lower price.

After walking all of Revolución, we set our sights southwards, toward the big flag that towers over TJ. You could easily see it from the U.S. too. So we walked there.


Then we walked past a small city park, with a creepy homeless guy talking to himself and yelling loudly. That moment was probably the least safe I felt in Tijuana. And I felt similar to how I feel in LA when a homeless guy yells at me.

We then walked past a few shops selling caskets and funeral accessories. Wikitravel said this area was the more genuine and authentic side of Tijuana. Hmm...

We continued walking in the sandy bright sun. Back across a couple of not-so-noteworthy neighborhoods that vaguely reminded me of parts of San José (Costa Rica). We stumbled upon the Tijuana Cultural Center (or whatever it was).


Michelle and I sat in the shade of the substantial orb and rested our legs. (I was wearing chucks this whole day, btw.) I soon finished the last of my water bottle.

The afternoon passed more quickly than I had expected. It was nearly 5pm and we needed to get back across the border. So we walked across the river, tried to see a side of TJ beyond the usual tourist routes, but alas, there really wasn't much worth noting. There WAS, however, a Thrifty Ice Cream stand right before the border! Of COURSE I had to get a scoop. I munched on my cookies and cream while waiting in line at the border. It took like half an hour almost to get through the passport check. Meh. 

Back in the U.S. The trolley took us back to Sue, who survived safely in the parking lot. I drove Michelle briefly through downtown SD because she had never really been before, which astonished me. I got a voicemail from a potential rideshare, but by the time I got back to the US and could call him, he had already found a ride. It was 8pm by the time we got back. I had two girls couchsurfing with me that evening - Victoria and Rachel. And we had a good night indeed, but that's a whole other story... to come...

Friday, August 6, 2010

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Still more amused by TV shows...



Went out with Andy and Patty last night. Picked them up in Hollywood, drove to El Cholo and had some dinner. There were two promoters from XX (Dos Equis) who gave us coupons off the beer. AND as we were finishing our meal, in walked a couple extremely good looking young women, followed by a few more women, and more! There were like 30 of them, all seated along a long table. Finally, a girl wearing a bridal veil entered. It was a Bachelorette party (Buck's night)! Patty was all fumbled up trying to think of how to approach them. But beware the cheerleader effect. We eventually left without bothering the ladies. But that wasn't all for tonight...


Headed back to the apt and power napped for about an hour. Then the three of us went to Busby's right on Santa Monica in Santa Monica. I had read that it's a sports bar that turns into a dance club. The people outside looked really dressed up. Inside there was an area reserved for a private party. After a brief hesitation, I crashed the party... there were a lot of young, innocent looking people standing about awkwardly. I asked someone what it was, and turns out it was a mixer for all the first-year med school students at UCLA. Cool beans. The dance floor got packed soon thereafter. I was reminded of bad times at frat parties and soon withdrew into myself. Patty, however, was on the prowl and chatted up a couple girls. I feel that I dampened the evening by saying we should go home around midnight. I just value sleep, what?!

There aren't enough hours in the day.

Oh yes, and I received my new ipod! I named her Erika. She's nice. But it's hard to replace Rachel. And since it's just a replacement, not something brand new to me, I'm not as ecstatic as I would be.

Jogged around VA this morning. Listened to "Snakes on a Plane" and Yellowcard. Crystal stayed over last night, we chatting this morning over breakfast/cantaloupe.

Got to work late. Like 9:30 late. No worries, but I wonder how late I can push it?

Dale and I are wearing the same purple long-sleeve t-shirt.

I feel oddly spritely. I feel like an adult. Taking charge of responsibilities, and actually doing stuff.

Clementine lunch today! To celebrate Dave's last day. Yummy BLT with applewood smoked bacon and organic heirloom tomatoes and freshly toasted bread. But I kinda wish I ordered the burger (with grass-fed beef!).

The new Santa Monica Place opened today. Andy and Patty are there.


Music: All Time Low - Six Feet Under the Stars; 

Tonight: Celebrating Jonathan's last weekend in LA before he goes to the east coast. Korean BBQ